Friends or Foes

Ive been listening to this song for "Amal Maher" Its called " Beinak we Beinha" which means "Between you and her". Its about a girl telling her husband or her boyfriend that if he HAS to cheat on her then please dont cheat with my best friend.
Basically he can go to hell but her friend is more important to her.

I personally like the song a lot even though i dont know - God forbid- if i was in her shoes if that would be my reaction. Let alone that i can never imagine my best friend being sneaky or sly enough to hook up with my husband. Infact i couldnt imagine any guy or more likely any REAL FRIEND do that to her friend!

Then i bumped into one of my friends who has experienced this event with a close friend of hers. Meaning her friends husband married her other best friend!

Question is... if such close friends can do this how well can you know what your friends are really like?

PS. if you havent heard the song before... look it up "Amal maher - beinak we benha"

I mean can a best friend REALLY do that? or do they have to be like the lowest scum of scum ( which in that case shouldnt be your friend in the first place). Guys we all know can turn to scum once they see anything more than a lady's arm!! or sometimes even less than that! But when its your friend? a very close one who does that.. i think its unforgivable.

I'm not sure whether its more unforgivable for the friend or for the husband since i dont believe in admitting or taking into consideration that men tend to be unfaithful and that its a habit or an instinct that they cant change. Honestly, it doesnt give them any excuses either.

I dont know... would i actually be upset with my friend and dump her but maybe forgive my husband? or dump them both.. or in the case of this song... forget about the guy and plead that if he has to cheat he doesnt have to take my best friend away from me since she is the one i can talk to and spill out my guts to!

Who do you think you would be - God forbid!?

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Queen of Shiba said…
I would personally more hurt to know that my friend cheated on me with someone i love...and ye si would dump them both..gat'hom el araf yeshba3o be ba3d:))
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