Support System

These days, everywhere i turn, someone somewhere is depressed for some reason or another.
Whether its...
Being alone at night.
Being with Mr./Mrs. Wrong at night.
Not being alone ENOUGH!!

Breaking up with a loved one.
Losing a loved one.

Feeling like they have under achieved in their careers.
Taken away from family due to their career lives.

Having kids that are always getting on their nerves.
NOT having kids to get on their nerves.

And worst of all, not getting support from the people who you expect support from.

WOW... and i mean.....WOW.

It's like there is always one thing or another that can get you into depression. It's like no matter what happens, we will always find something that will depress us.
Unfortunately, im not one to speak coz i guess we all go through these phases. We pray it will come to an end soon even though we feel like its going to be forever.

But i'm guessing that nothing can take us out of our misery except ourselves. We plan our way out. Atleast i know i do...and sometimes i even know how to console myself... yeah..probably lie to myself too. DENIAAAAL! :) Oh well. whatever works to get me out of this suicidal state. (Not literally ofcourse).

So the question is... how do you help someone else out of this depression. Nothing seems to work usually. Take them out, have people around them, go to a party, involve them in planning something... It just doesnt cut it sometimes.

Should we try to help at all... or just.. let it pass!. I dont know! But sometimes when someone close to me feels so depressed like that... i just cant stand watching them and be so.

Does anyone have any ideas! I'd like to help.

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