NO... its not OK!
For the past couple of days, one subject has been repeated infront of me several times. Questions and wonderments have been asked.
So i decided to go online to one of my personally favorite sites youthink.com and publish a question.
"Is homosecxuality a natural occurence ie people are born that way? or is a choice to live this way for some social reasons?
And sure enough i got some interesting answers. Some said.. people are born that way.. others said its a sexual preference like liking burger king over mcdonalds :)ANd some said its a choice and a bizarre one.
Ofcourse the answers i got were mostly non-arabs and non-muslims so it was mostly opinions that i wanted to see and relate to how those people feel or think for that matter. At the end of the day it wont effect me in anyway.
But then i saw an AUC circular or newsletter stating that "Girls choose feminine companionship in AUC" and by companionship they dont mean friends they mean sexually active partners. Im not assuming this.. i have read the article.
I really didnt see any of the excuses that the girls gave in the article for being lesbians to be valid. Most of them said it started just out out of curiousity. I can understand that... i have been curious myself but that didnt turn me into a lesbian?!
One of them said that Lesbianism is not acknowleged in Egypt because of the focus on male homosexuality in Egypt and that no one will expect antyhing would happen between girls if they are alone together in a house. This implies that the natural thought that would come to the mind of any egyptian is that if two guys are alone in a house together they could very much be sexually active. REALLY????
Another girl thinks that its harder for women to come out about their homosexuality in Egypt. This is implying that it easier or maybe more acceptable and can be expected out of men.REALLY???
i think it is a well known fact that such an acion or homosexual orientation is condemned in this society as well as any other muslim and arab society... whether it be men or women.
Another young lady says that women know women better than men. Now i have heard this comment more than i can bear it! Couldnt it be that the problem is the communication issue? Maybe she cant communicate. Maybe they need a peoples skill crash course. I mean to be honest, it is not easy to communicate with a guy yes but is it so impossible that i would turn away altogether to women? REALLY?
And finally the comment that got me reaching for the moon is one that states that "Being attracted to a girl came as naturally to her as a normal straight person would be attracted to the opposite sex. Now if i had a female friend and we were so extremely and utterly close... We will relate to each other in everthing... and i would love her in everyway... but i would most definitely not feel any lust for her.
Naturally this feeling will not come to me. Maybe if our girls werent so exposed to the fact that its a possibility to be homosexual or the fact that some of her friends think its ok and maybe cool and unique to be a homo then this thought would not even cross her mind. The thought of falling in love (in a sexual way) would not come to mind except to a boy. Why? because this is the nature of things... This is the natural occurence. This is how a human and an animal was built and created. The is the how the circle of life meets ends.
Not being natural means you have a defect or a disease... You cant call it natural.
SO it is not OK to be a homosexual because its not natural. It is a choice that some have made and i am not obliged to accept it or think its normal and ok to be that way. NO matter how much the media presents it to me... no matter how much they try to convince me that its ok to be homosexual... no matter how much they raid me with their unnatural thoughts... no matter how much they invade my mind and my childrens minds through their movies, their sitcoms and their talk shows... We must stick to the truth and to the basic instint of a natural human being...
NO... it's not OK!
So i decided to go online to one of my personally favorite sites youthink.com and publish a question.
"Is homosecxuality a natural occurence ie people are born that way? or is a choice to live this way for some social reasons?
And sure enough i got some interesting answers. Some said.. people are born that way.. others said its a sexual preference like liking burger king over mcdonalds :)ANd some said its a choice and a bizarre one.
Ofcourse the answers i got were mostly non-arabs and non-muslims so it was mostly opinions that i wanted to see and relate to how those people feel or think for that matter. At the end of the day it wont effect me in anyway.
But then i saw an AUC circular or newsletter stating that "Girls choose feminine companionship in AUC" and by companionship they dont mean friends they mean sexually active partners. Im not assuming this.. i have read the article.
I really didnt see any of the excuses that the girls gave in the article for being lesbians to be valid. Most of them said it started just out out of curiousity. I can understand that... i have been curious myself but that didnt turn me into a lesbian?!
One of them said that Lesbianism is not acknowleged in Egypt because of the focus on male homosexuality in Egypt and that no one will expect antyhing would happen between girls if they are alone together in a house. This implies that the natural thought that would come to the mind of any egyptian is that if two guys are alone in a house together they could very much be sexually active. REALLY????
Another girl thinks that its harder for women to come out about their homosexuality in Egypt. This is implying that it easier or maybe more acceptable and can be expected out of men.REALLY???
i think it is a well known fact that such an acion or homosexual orientation is condemned in this society as well as any other muslim and arab society... whether it be men or women.
Another young lady says that women know women better than men. Now i have heard this comment more than i can bear it! Couldnt it be that the problem is the communication issue? Maybe she cant communicate. Maybe they need a peoples skill crash course. I mean to be honest, it is not easy to communicate with a guy yes but is it so impossible that i would turn away altogether to women? REALLY?
And finally the comment that got me reaching for the moon is one that states that "Being attracted to a girl came as naturally to her as a normal straight person would be attracted to the opposite sex. Now if i had a female friend and we were so extremely and utterly close... We will relate to each other in everthing... and i would love her in everyway... but i would most definitely not feel any lust for her.
Naturally this feeling will not come to me. Maybe if our girls werent so exposed to the fact that its a possibility to be homosexual or the fact that some of her friends think its ok and maybe cool and unique to be a homo then this thought would not even cross her mind. The thought of falling in love (in a sexual way) would not come to mind except to a boy. Why? because this is the nature of things... This is the natural occurence. This is how a human and an animal was built and created. The is the how the circle of life meets ends.
Not being natural means you have a defect or a disease... You cant call it natural.
SO it is not OK to be a homosexual because its not natural. It is a choice that some have made and i am not obliged to accept it or think its normal and ok to be that way. NO matter how much the media presents it to me... no matter how much they try to convince me that its ok to be homosexual... no matter how much they raid me with their unnatural thoughts... no matter how much they invade my mind and my childrens minds through their movies, their sitcoms and their talk shows... We must stick to the truth and to the basic instint of a natural human being...
NO... it's not OK!
Comments
Re your post, I indeed accept the presence of homosexuals but that doesn't mean I accept their ideology or sexual preferences!
I don't get so annoyed by them really, I mean it doesn't get onto my nerves anymore. At the end people make their own choices in life.
I understand your concern about what this world is coming to if everybody think it's normal to be a homo and that the idea of having a partner of the same sex would be welcome by many people.
I'm totally against that, but again, no one has control over what others do. I can only control my surroundings and can only implant my beliefs into near and dear ones (my children for example). Yet again, people will always have the choice.
Am I making sense here?!
Ofcourse you cant change people but then again you should not make them feel welcome because then they would only continue with their mistakes. You wont change them by not accepting them but they would know that they are not part of the society that you accept.